Pickler Weddings

                                                         Different Varieties of Ceremonies:

Unity Candle Ceremony:
The Unity Candle Ceremony consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles held by the bride and groom. This ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle (some re-light the candle each year on their anniversary).

Sand Ceremony:
This is a sweet ceremony where in place of lighting the unity candle, the bride and groom each collect sand from two viles, and pour it into one vial, symbolizing the unity of two lives coming into one. This is very similar to the unity candle and is primarily used in beach weddings.

The Blessing of the Rings:
The wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond which unites two loyal hearts in endless love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another.   It symbolizes living together in unity, love and happiness for the rest of their lives.

Breaking of the Glass:
The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for Jewish ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. “Breaking the glass serves to remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life."

Children Services:
Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony.   There are numerous ways this may be done.

Flower Ceremony:
This is a family/friends ceremony.   Each designated person comes up and places a different flower in a vase to create a garden of love.

Honoring the Mothers:
A brief reading is done and then the bride and/or groom present their mother(s) with a small gift (flowers usually).

Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance:
Both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names or a general statement.

Rose Ceremony:
A symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony.

Support from Families Service:
Parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The officiant asks who brings this couple to be wed.

Wine or Water Ceremony:
The couple share a cup of wine or water while the officiant says a blessing and a reading.

Jumping The Broom:
There are many different versions of this ritual which involves the couple jumping over the broom. Essentially, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away of the old and welcoming the new, or a symbol of a new beginning.

Anything You Want!
Do you have your own wedding ideas?   We will incorporate anything you want into the ceremony so that it is the most magical event of your life.